Posts tagged as:

kindness

Wired for Kindness, Social Media Magnifies

by Sunny Lam on December 28, 2009

D9A28B64-05F7-4D1D-8D4A-1C1232C9700E.jpg

(Photo via SSG)

Recent work by some scientists down in California are telling us that kindness, trust and helping each other out is what allows us humans to survive. In fact, they’re finding that the gene for the “cuddle hormone” plays a huge factor and that the more you give, the more respect you get. You don’t believe it? You should for 2 reasons – both using social media examples.

Social scientists build case for ’survival of the kindest’: “Researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, are challenging long-held beliefs that human beings are wired to be selfish. In a wide range of studies, social scientists are amassing a growing body of evidence to show we are evolving to become more compassionate and collaborative in our quest to survive and thrive.”

(Via Science Daily.)

FACEBOOK, TWITTER & SOCIAL MEDIA

Why have online social networks like Facebook, Twitter and YouTube become so big? One of the reasons is that it allows us to share, connect and join in a community more easily than ever especially since it’s so difficult to find time to do so in person. Think of the time starved mom or the workaholic dad.

Humans need the connection even if a lot of it has moved online. People are able to find and reconnect with old friends and family who live half across the world.

These tools have allowed humans to get a level of connection, collaboration and sharing that was never possible in the past and it can happen across nearly all walks of life. The only requirement is the ability to access the Internet to enter the new “information wave”.

If humans are changing to have more kindness, sharing and community then social media is the next step of this change (as long as technology continues along the way it’s doing now)

TRUST AGENTS

Some of the strongest examples of how kindness and trust wins people incredible influence can be found with souls like Chris Brogan, Brian Clark, Seth Godin, Gary Vaynerchuk and Guy Kawasaki. All of them are influential because of their dedication to community, to sharing knowledge and information and helping others.

Are there others? I’m sure you can think of a few more people like them.

This point as you can tell follows closely with the first point since all of these people have used and are very good at being part of the social media community. The Internet and social media have allowed them to share their passion and knowledge to thousands if not millions of people worldwide in ways that would never have been possible 50 years ago.

Need help on how to make things like Facebook, Twitter and YouTube work for you? Let us know, we can lend a hand.

VN:F [1.8.1_1037]
Rating: 0.0/10 (0 votes cast)
VN:F [1.8.1_1037]
Rating: 0 (from 0 votes)

Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , ,

  • Share/Bookmark

{ 0 comments }

Don’t Just Catch – Give

by Sunny Lam on September 2, 2009

F2CCC524-D9B7-425E-A515-065EFCB253DC.jpg

Photo via Shavua Tov!

Jeannette Paladino had an excellent quote from a gal named Maya Angelou about why it’s important to help others – anyone be it a friend, someone in need or a young person at the start of their career. I just had to blog about it because it speaks to the importance of the work of many wonderful people out there.

Don’t Go Through Life With a Catcher’s Mitt in Both Hands |: “From Maya Angelou:
‘I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back.’
‘Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.’
‘I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.’
‘There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.’
‘If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude. Don’t complain.’
‘I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.’
‘I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way s/he handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.’
‘Ask for what you want and be prepared to get it!’
‘You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead pursue the things you love doing and then do them so well that people can’t take their eyes off of you.’
Words to live by.”

(Via Write Speak Sell.)

VN:F [1.8.1_1037]
Rating: 0.0/10 (0 votes cast)
VN:F [1.8.1_1037]
Rating: 0 (from 0 votes)

Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , ,

  • Share/Bookmark

{ 1 comment }